What is my problem or there problem ?

Look at your pro's numbers 2 and 3. "You don't like to make fun of people" and you are "forgiving." Now apply those to yourself. Don't be so hard on yourself! It seems to me that you avoid fights because you are a bit insecure. You have no need to be. You have some crazy awesome pro's there man. Being normal sucks man. For real, we could use more respect for garbage men and women here in America. Be yourself and love the self God gave you. If you accept yourself, you will be confident and others will begin to accept you.